hmmmm.... it can't be....
fruitkake - he's always known my e-mail and he likes bots
taste - as above and still in high school
apathy (TNG) - as above
Hero - knows my e-mail and loves bots
Oro - hates bots, but knows my e-mail
Dark_Flash - has known my e-mail for years
Cokester - knows my e-mail
Instinct - knows my e-mail
Doubt - knows my e-mail
Spyder - i don't think that fits his description, and he knows my ICQ and prolly knows my e-mail
all other zero - know my e-mail
hmmmmm who is left? I get the feeling this name is on the tip of my tongue, and I'm going to say "doh! of course!" as soon as I get it, but for now, the name eludes me...